After breastfeeding my first daughter Amirah until 2 years of age, I had 3 months of having my boobs to myself again before jumping back into full on breastfeeding again.
Breastfeeding with my second little love Liyana was different as although I was a lot more confident second time around it doesn’t change the fact that the initial stages of feeding a newborn can be quite uncomfortable.
Jumping into mum life initially I was so surprised that women didn’t talk about this more! Everyone always says that breastfeeding is the most beautiful & natural thing in the world. Whilst that can be true, it doesn’t mean that it comes easily for all women & these statements can make so many first time mums feel like they are doing something wrong/failing at mum life already. If you are a first time mama struggling with breastfeeding or perhaps you are pregnant & looking forward to feeding your little one, just know that support is out there & with time breastfeeding does get better. At least that has been my experience with both of my babies.
Some things that I have found to help ease the discomfort include:
-lansinoh cream (applying it to the nipples starting from the third trimester)
-hydrogel discs or multi mam compress packs
-using hot & cold compresses
-using a breast pump when your breasts are too full
-gentle massage before feeding or during feeds to help reduce lumps
-trying different feeding positions eg lying down, underarm, cradle etc
-using a nipple shield (I haven’t personally used these but I know friends swear by them)
-check baby’s latch
-work with a lactation consultant as they are specialists in breastfeeding and can help trouble shoot any issues you may have & support you on your feeding journey
Can any other mamas relate to the struggle of the initial stage of breastfeeding?
